- Communicate with your partner. Be firm, don't send mixed messages, be clear with
your partner what you are comfortable doing.
- Be aware and independent on dates. Have opinions on what you will do, pay your own way,
provide your own transportation.
- Be aware of alcohol and drugs. They can compromise your judgement, and the judgement
of your partner.
- If things start to get out of hand, leave, protest loudly Don't wait
for someone else to help. If things feel uncomfortable, leave.